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AIBU to complain about this Pub manager's aggressive behaviour?

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ComposHat · 28/01/2012 01:40

A few hours have passed and I am still seething about this, so apologies if it gets a bit ranty.

Anyway here goes...

I went to a city centre pub I'd never been to before in order to meet a female work colleague. She had arrived ahead of me and had got a table and ordered a drink. She'd also bought her Brompton-style folding bike with her, which was folded up to the size of an overnight case and had put it in the corner out of harms way.

Ten minutes passed and things seemed okay, when the manager ran across the pub screaming at my colleague bellowing at her to move the bike outside, invading her personal space to such a degree that he was inches away from her face and making her feel very uncomfortable. He then frog marched her to the door and when she was away locking up the bike, proceeded to take her coat and handbag and fling it off the chair and berate me about my colleague's bike. I tried to politely explain that it was not my bike, but he wouldn't listen and continued to get more and more hostile.

My colleague had no problem with moving the bike outside and immediately agreed to do so, however we both objected to being confronted with such unprovoked hostility, when a simple polite request would have done the job.

In the course of the 45 minutes he again returned to further harrangue me about an issue that had nothing to do with me. The whole experience was extremely uncomfortable and got quite physically intimidating towards the end.

So anyway I got home and decided I wasn't going to put up with this and sent a furious letter to the Brewery complaining about this. One part of me thinks that he shouldn't be allowed to get away with this, although another thinks I should have let it lie and just given the pub a wide berth in future.

So was I BU to send an email of complaint to the Brewery?

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JazzAnnNonMouse · 28/01/2012 12:43

Yanbu he sounds unhinged and needs to be got rid of if he can't deal with customers

SecretMinceRinser · 28/01/2012 12:54

Oooh I'm from Liverpool originally. Which pub was it? So I can give it a wide berth when I go and visit my mum.
In future The Varsity is nice, and The Flute and Furkin and Hannahs. That if they are run by the same people/still there.

ComposHat · 28/01/2012 12:56

The Dispensary in Renshaw St.

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ComposHat · 28/01/2012 12:59

Cheers for the tips secret the Roscoe across the st is supposed to be alright too.

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HardCheese · 28/01/2012 13:00

And on a side note, I know a few Brompton users, and not one of them would ever leave it outside a pub! Some of the standard models cost about £1500! A friend of mine has just got herself one in New York, and even in aggressive (and pretty cramped) Manhattan cafes or bars, no one has ever got in her face this way over putting it, folded, in a corner.

oreocrumbs · 28/01/2012 13:03

Oh I opened this threrad expecting to say you probably are unreasonable (I have a city centre pub). But Shock. Does he have the faintest idea how much our industry is suffering and what a prick he is?

And it is illegal to refuse tap water. (Well if you come in and only order tap water you can refuse service but if they have bought anything, they are then a customer and you have to give them it!

If he is just the manager and not the owner, really do go about reporting him to the brewery or the chain he works for.

I'm independant, but we are next door to a Yate's - the manager there is a clueless prick and as a result I earn much more money picking up the customers he annoys! Yate's would have a fit if they knew what their manager was doing to that pub!

oreocrumbs · 28/01/2012 13:06

And in previous years if someone wrote to me complaining about a manager I probably wouldn't have done much, it always becomes their word against yours, but now, with business so bloody hard to come by - I would be taking it very seriously.

The man sounds like a loon and that comes from a manager with the shortest fuse in history Grin

catpark · 28/01/2012 13:12

Make a massive complaint about this. Perhaps if it was that bad you should have a word with the local police ? Doesn't matter if he's a manager of the pub he had no right to intimidate you like that or touch your colleagues handbag and other belongings. Was he drunk ? If he was then i'm pretty sure he shouldn't be in charge of the pub.

Or you could always go to the local paper and get an article done about him, i'm sure the brewery would love that.

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