Have been following a thread on AIBU about a DD wetting herself. Several of the responses are from parents whose DCs have experienced misdiagnosis of faecal impaction by GPs or paediatricians. We have also had a dreadful experience of misdiagnosis resulting in my DC being in constant pain for years and being bullied and called stinky at school and having the other parents asking for DCs removal from school for reasons of hygiene.
Surely professionals should be able to follow the comprehensive NICE guidelines and the map of medicine website in order to carry out all the necessary assessments to ensure it is promptly diagnosed. 95% of children with soiling problems have this condition according to NHS research and it is also a very common cause of wetting so it would be reasonable to rule it out before concluding that the problem is due to behaviour or abuse.