I work as a PA and I have recently handed in my notice on good terms to move to a job with better prospects, more money etc. The office is small and sociable and the vast majority of my colleagues will be at attending farewell drinks. My manager however, who I work very closely with and have for a number of years as his PA, has made it clear he won't be attending as he doesn't attend social occasions at work. He has given no other reason, no plans, just doesn't want to be there. I am quite upset by this and feel that he should make the effort to attend after all the work I have done, sometimes way above my job role and on a personal level as a proper goodbye as we have obviously worked very closely for a number of years. Other colleagues agree he should attend but I am reluctant to approach him and ask him to make the effort for fear of damaging our relationship and because I don't want him to be there if he doesn't want to be there. I suppose I just want him to want to be there! AIBU? Thank you for reading,