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AIBU to find kissing, hugging, telling friends I love them all the time a bit uncomfortable?

32 replies

clare458 · 24/01/2012 18:41

Do you kiss, hug and tell your friends you love them whenever u see them or talk on the phone? I have a couple of friends who do this and I feel really mean not feeling very comfortable with people saying things like 'love ya Hun' nearly every frigging day for the slightest thing.

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ImperialBlether · 24/01/2012 19:25

Pisses me off, though, BackForGood, when my daughter kisses and hugs everyone else and I just get "See you!"

BumgrapesofWrath · 24/01/2012 19:32

YANBU. It seems a little bit fake to me.

Salmotrutta · 24/01/2012 19:41

Family only hugs - that's the rule.

I hate clutchers.

Fortunately all our friends are grown-ups. It does seem to be very common with the yoof now though. Even up here in dour old Scotland. Hmm

QuietOhSoQuiet · 24/01/2012 19:47

not even read all the posts but has to say bleurgh bleurgh bleurgh

I do not kiss,hug or tell any of my friends I love them EVER

These words and actions are reserved for my family

RedHotPokers · 24/01/2012 19:49

Oh god I hate that moment when you're not sure if someone's going to hug you, or whether you should hug them! Gah!

I come from a very touchy feely family, and am very cuddly and kissy with my DCs, DH and my DM, but anyone else - ugh! Cringe.

motherinferior · 24/01/2012 19:52

Oh, I hug/kiss/snog anyone I can, frankly. I am a frightful luvvie and I don't get out much.

I don't have sex with them, mind, at least not now I am a boring middle aged laydee.

mojitomania · 24/01/2012 20:29

YANBU. I don't go in for this myself, I have a thing about personal space and people staying out of it unless invited in. I also only kiss family or my two bezzie mates after a few too many Grin

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