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To hate getting caught up in playground games

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SmellyMouthedPrickfairy · 24/01/2012 13:15

He said, she said. Apparently I'm the one in the middle that has been doing the stirring!

I would ignore it but what I have apparently been saying has an effect on my sons godparents who are my closest friends. So now have to get to the bottom of it.

Fuxake!

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mojitomania · 24/01/2012 14:58

Sounds like a regular day on mumsnet! Grin

Newmummytobe79 · 24/01/2012 15:04

Oh tell us more Smelly!

By the way - if they're you're closest friends, they'll know you're not stirring. Just tell them and get rid of the one causing mither!

HexagonalQueenOfTheSummer · 24/01/2012 15:07

See this is why I try not to get involved in anything in the playground or not to get closely involved with other mums. I have been in the past, when DD1 was at primary school, and it was just a constant round of bitching, gossip and shit stirring. Hope you get it sorted, OP.

SmellyMouthedPrickfairy · 24/01/2012 15:18

Oh it wasn't actually in the playground, I just put that as the title because it feels like I've been sent back to school. Hmm

I know my closest friends believe me, but what I was supposed to have said may have ruined their chances of being godparents to another one of their friends DD, I was apparently telling someone that they were bitching about the parent of said DD.

But story has changed now, apparently I have said that my close friends and their friend have been bitching about another friend of mine.. and it's her DP that has called and told them I had been saying this. [yawn]

Either way, I know I haven't said anything, my close friends know I haven't said anything, my friend that I have apparently said this to knows I haven't said anything.. so I think it may be her DP that have been stirring stuff up because he read a convo between me and her in which we were both having a bit of a bitch about him (he's really not been nice to her recently) and feels his nose has been put out of joint so it trying to cause trouble for me.

TBH I CBA with it all, the people that matter know the truth.. Just a bit pissed off at getting dragged into it....

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HexagonalQueenOfTheSummer · 24/01/2012 15:42

True friends will always believe you over other people and will stand up for you. I don't blame you for getting annoyed about it all.

SmellyMouthedPrickfairy · 24/01/2012 21:19

Just a little update, the loser that has trying to stir everything up has threatened to steal mine and another persons cars.. how pathetic.

I have reported this to the police on the non-emergency number (because he has a history of doing stuff like this) just in case he decides to go ahead, so there is proof of what he has threatened.

I really do question people likes him's mindset.. he needs to get a job and focus on things that are important in life (such as his baby's arrival)

wtf [sigh]

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