To end a short relationship because of these reasons.

[hmmmfrazzled]

To cut a long story short (I've namechanged for this) I met a guy online 4 months ago. We've spoken everyday since we got talking online and had a few dates and meet ups with our children.
We attempted to sleep together Friday night. Just before we were about to try it he confessed he hasn't slept with a woman in 8 years (he only broke up with his ex a year ago!) He couldn't get any kind of erection at all, despite saying he wanted to so much. I do feel sorry for him but I don't think I could be in a sexless relationship. I'm 10 years younger than him. I also discovered he had really bad psoriasis and his half of the bed was literally covered in flakes of white skin.
I know he can't help either of the above problems but I just couldn't live with either of them. I felt really squirmish changing the bed and had to do it as soon as I discovered (he'd gone by then)
Am I totally selfish for wanting to finish things? He is a nice guy but I no longer feel physically attracted to him anymore :(

god frazzled this sounds exactly like a guy a friend of mine met online a couple of years ago,she was the same and ended it as she could not deal with it either.

Am starting to feel a little better now, thanks. Have really hated myself for feeling the way Ido. Quiet wonder if it's the same guy or is more common than I think?

Too many people try to punch above their weight in the dating scene and this could be a simple case of him doing so.

But for every person we find repulsive theirs a person out there that finds us repulsive.

Yup that's right...some people think we're mingers.

You can end any relationship, of any duration, for any reason you want. Not sure why you are trying to justify it.
I think this is a problem with online dating, you do too much chatting before seeing each other and jumping into bed. A bloke who would put up with an asexual relationship for 7 years wouldn't be the bloke for me.
"Nice" is for friends not lovers.

well I did wonder frazzled,I mean

Most definitely-I'm no oil painting at all and have weight to lose! I just can't cope with skin pieces in my bed or lack of sex. Shame as nice bloke in other ways and ds liked our 'friend.'

I'm sorry but I laughed about the flakes I'm going to hell for sure

Tbh it bothers me more than dh when its bad and the bed is like a cornflake packet. You just kinda get on with it but if you love or are attracted to someone it wouldn't be a deal breaker