A school mum mentioned that she had a space for her DD at the sports club that my DD1 attends (DD's are best friends) and maybe we could alternate weeks with bringing them there. Great I said and excited for my DD that her friend was also going to go too.
Then a day later she mentions that her DS will also be going. Ok, didn't realise that when I agreed to the arrangement but my DD2 is also waiting for a space and will probably get one soon so it will all even out, although I am a bit hesitant to be in charge of four children (her DS can sometimes be a bit of a handful although not dramatically so). I would be picking them all up from the school and walking them to my house and get them changed and then drive to the sports centre and drop her children off on the way back. She would do the same with my two children every other week.
She then mentions yesterday that her older DS (who is 9) will be having swimming lessons during the same time and assuming that I'll be alright taking him too. At no moment did she mentions that she was planning to do this or ask if I'm actually alright with it.
So last night I felt quite manipulated about the whole thing and somehow the arrangement went from taking one child to taking three and sent her a text this morning that I'm not comfortable taking five children and I'll just be bringing my own children every week. Haven't had a response yet.
AIBU?