I was going for a walk today. I could see three people coming towards me. Two women next to each other, not exactly linking arms, but close to one another, and a man walking slightly behind. The pavement was quite narrow, and I could see that we could not all three fit. I was walking close to a wall, and made sure I stepped even closer to the wall, to allow the two women to form a single line and bypass me, allowing all of us to remain on the pavement.
This would be the obvious solution, right?
Not so. The women did not budge. I ended up standing face to face with one of them. Silence. We were like inches away from each other. She said
"Dyyt Dyyt. MOVE!".
I said nothing for a second then said.
"Do you really expect me to side step TWO people, and walk out into the street?"
She looked stunned and mumbled "of course not. sorry" and stepped aside.
And we went on our merry way.
Good luck for me that I was RAGING already, as otherwise I would have meekly stepped aside.
Was she rude? Was I rude?
What is the etiquette when meeting on a narrow pavement?