I went out last night with a friend of mine and a 'friend of a friend'. For the purpose of this post I'll call her K!
I've met K before, been on a couple nights out with her and she seemed nice enough but I don't really know her that well.
Anyway, we went to this club where K's boyfriend works as a DJ.
She got very drunk. I'm not sure if it's just her personality or if her drunkeness that caused it but she was being very antagonistic towards anyone and everyone in the club, male and female. She shouted at one bloke for accidentally bumping into her as he walked past, screamed at another girl for nearly stepping on her foot, and so on.
In walks a male friend of mine and DH's (lets call him G). DH used to work with him and we have known him for years - his DD and our DS2 are practically the same age, we know his girlfriend, etc.
He was on his way to the smoking area so, even though I don't smoke, I went out with him to have a chat and a catch up outside where it was a bit quieter. He looked really happy to see me, gave me a hug and started commenting about how 'hot' I looked (not a stealth boast! - It's relevent to what happened later!)
As we re-enter the club K spots me with G and just goes mad - she ran up, smacked him in the side of the head and started pushing him in the chest, screaming at him 'what the are you doing, she's married' and stuff like that.
I put myself between them, holding my hands up to keep her off him and try to calm her down - I tried to tell her that he was a friend of mine but either she couldn't hear or was so worked up she wasn't listening because she continued to try to hit him around me.
The bouncers quickly turned up and escorted G out - she was allowed to stay in. I went with him to try and find out what was going on and apparently she had told them that he hit her, hence why he was asked to leave. I had no interest in staying after that so G said he would walk me home (about 10 minutes).
There were some police standing outside so G decided to report what it and I said that if I needed to I would give my account of what happened.
So, on the walk home G then proceeded to keep telling me how 'hot' I was, how 'cool' I was and generally overboard on the compliments. He then, several times, tried to get me to kiss him, not in an aggressive way but in a very persistant and annoying way, to the extent of 'pulling me in' so I had to push him off me (he is shorter than me and I'm only 5ft4 but not the point!).
Eventually he stopped and dropped me off (so to speak) just before my house - probably so he didn't have to encounter DH after what he had just been doing.
I'm so annoyed at K for assalting someone who is my friend, especially when she didn't bother to check who this guy is, and even more so that she was supposedly doing in on my behalf! I'm perfectly capable of dealing with guys on a night out who approach me and what she did was completely unnecessary and wrong.
I'm also really angry at G for doing what he did when he knows DH and our 2 DS's! I mentioned his girlfriend at one point and he went very quiet. I'm even more annoyed because I was sticking up for him in the club!I don't know if I should even bother giving a statement about what happened now.
Just so angry - why can't the people I know and hang around with just be normal and decent! Why should I have this aggrivation when I try to go out and enjoy myself! Arrrrrgggg!