A bit long, I was wondering if you think my neighbour is ott or is it me?
Don't want to drip feed.
Neighbour dropped a note through the door a few days ago, asking me to look for a dead animal in my garage, as her dog was digging her garden up, and was digging near my garage. I had a read of the letter and spoke to someone to come and help me as I am scared and I have mobility problems, they were due to come tomorrow as it happens. I find my neighbour a controlling bully on the few occasions we have had dealings, and they seem to have issues with undiagnosed OCD, as they have major cleaning issues, they hoover several times a day and the like, I also found out from others that she was discussing the fact I had plants in my conservatory at one point, she used to push trellacing down that I had up for my veg garden several times, as she didn't like poking over the main fence level, she was very nasty about it, I never said anything to her, just kept putting it back up she had a go at me, so, she is very aware of my disability issues and that I am a lone parent, she has been very nasty many times over the years, and when she found out I was on my own her son came and knocked on the door the next day offering to sell my home, I had no intention of moving cheeky sod. They have opened packages, delivered when I was out, and my royal mail as well. The list could go on and on. They have reported me for crazy things to the council, we all own our homes, for example last year it was too snowy for the bin men, and and as I had no clue when they would next come I left my rubbish out, this was reported to the council as rubbish all over the front garden, the council drove by and wrote to me about it saying that they couldn't see a problem, she reported me again, recently, another neighbours dog got loose, owner no where to be found, and attacked my bins an hour before the bin men were due, the bins were actually at the side of my house, and she again reported it to the council, I was at a hospital appointment and have left before the incident, another visit from the council.
So today, I had a visitor and I had just had the supermarket delivery dopped off, and I was just about to sit down the door went, I thought it was the delivery man, it was her, I said it isn't a good time I have a visitor, and went to close the door, she pushed against the door to try and prevent me from closing the door, she was raging and shouting at me, that no I was going to speak to her now, then the door got closed and she shouted she was calling the police. The visitor was still there and then later the police showed up, wanting to examine my garage, I told them no, and that the council had said to me previously to report the neighbour to the police for harrassment, and that I feel she is harassing me now. They said they would have a word with her to ask her to not come near me again, no harassment warning as they are not aware of anything else.
I have cancelled the person coming tomorrow now as I feel that she will think she has bullied me into rummaging around the garage, am I unreasonable to give my professional visitor my attention and to look in my garage at a time that suits me and the person helping me? Would you be annoyed at this woman?
Am I wrong in thinking that she should focus on dealing with her dog herself and her issues, she is probably annoyed at the dirty dog legs or something and can't cope, I really don't like people controlling me, funny enough my ex was a controlling man too and he said next door reminded him of his parents and didn't like them either!
I know they are sneaky, as once some kids built a camp at the end of their's and our garden, exh was going to get up early to wreck it as the kids kept looking in at us in the garden, when he got up he said next door must have wrecked it in the middle of the night, so I am scared of them and what they will do, they are a husband and two grown sons, and her.
I have never had much to do with them if I can help it, I keep myself to myself and get on with my own life.