I had a hospital appointment yesterday as I need to have a minor op. The doctor wasn't great, though that's neither here nor there, but just before I left he handed me a form and told me to go to the phlebotomy department to have a blood test "to check it isn't cancer".
I'm pretty sure it isn't and had the blood taken, but when I mentioned it to DH later and said I was a bit freaked out at the doctor putting it so baldly and it had made me a bit anxious, he literally shrugged his shoulders. Several hours later, having tried to talk to him about it again but getting much the same reaction, I was tossing and turning in bed unable to sleep because it was preying on my mind while DH plays computer games downstairs. I tried to bring it up again when he came to bed (more than an hour after me), and he said it was late and he wasnted to go to sleep.
AIBU to be hurt by this? Or am I over-reacting, particularly as I don't think it is anything sinister? I just wanted a hug and some reassurance really, but am upset at his apparent refusal to talk about it, and to favour playing computer games over even just giving me a hug in bed, even if he didn't want to talk about it himself (he could be a bit freaked out at it too, for all I know, but he wouldn't say).