"But I Really Miss That"

[HeWontMissMyFistInHisGob]

Been annoying me for a while this one but basically I don't give oral sex very often (very, very rare) simply because I don't like to. I'm a bit germophobic which could contribute to the reason but apart from that, I just don't like it. So DP says things like "I wish you would do it more, that's one thing I really miss"

He says this about other stuff too. AIBU in thinking he's basically saying he misses sex with his ex here??

I wouldn't say its sex with his ex that he's missing its the sexual experience he's missing. Maybe he's missing it off you?

If you've done it before and he enjoyed it he might be missing you doing it again? HAve you never done it for him?

Not, not misses sex with his ex, just misses that. Unfortunately, knowing that his ex did it and you don't want to will make you feel like that.

I don't do it either. It's a bit grim.

Tell him to wish away but you will only do this as and when you see fit. You're not saying never but he shouldn't be trying to guilt you into it.

ha ha love the name

have you ever showered together?

does he do things for you in bed that he's not as keen on but knows you like?

but in the meantime I'd make it your catchphrase too - about everything - god i used to love how you used to take the bins out on time every tuesday morning - i really miss that - remember how you used to clean the bathroom with that flash bathroom spray - well i wish you would do that more, thats one thing i really miss - awww remember how when we were first together you used to squeeze me/blah blah/compliments/tell me this - i wish you would do that again, I really miss that

ps personally its a big turn on for me to see someone get so much pleasure so i do enjoy giving oral sex but no one should ever do anything they don't want to sexually because (a) not good for them and (b) for the nice recipient it would take all the pleasure away anyway - bad resentful BJ worse than no BJ and good sex surely?

I don't think he's saying he misses sex with his ex, but that he'd like more blow jobs. Nothing wrong with that and nothing wrong with you not being into it either.

I don't agree with FolkGirl that BJs are grim though. I love giving them! But you shouldn't feel like you need to. And if he goes on about it, you need to tell him not to.

Does he give YOU oral sex? If not, why the hell should you do it for him?

Yellowraincoat - that's good to hear! As long as you're giving them, then I don't have too!

Loving the name missmyfist