Arguing for years he should do half the housework. He hasnt worked in years, retired on ill health and comfortable company pension, but healthy enough to go shooting on the moors every weekend.
I work 3 days a week and spend 4 hours a day, 4 days a week helping my dd with my disabled grandson. I still do 90% of the housework...believe me I've tried every angle!
So...another row about housework and today he says he will pay from his own money for a cleaner to come in 2 days a week and she's starting next week!
Dont know whether to be 
or 
as yet again he's outwitted me!