i won't let my son see his dad

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my ex was supposed to have our son on christmas afternoon & overnigh tbut i decided i wanted to keep him so he kept him on boxing day, i won't let him see our son now am i being unreasonable

Yawwwwwwwwwwwwwn.

'kept'?

I may be being dense here, but I can't really understand your OP.

So..you kept him Xmas Day and gave him to your XP when? Because I can't work out if you had him Xmas Day and night, gave your DS to him on Boxing Day or if he stayed at XP's on Xmas night then kept him all day Boxing Day?

So which is it? And what times was he supposed to bring him home, and the actual time he brought him home? I doubt he will do it again if you actually stick to your words. How old is your DS? Could he have not had a choice in the matter?

This has got to be a reverse. Story's too simple, no explanation or detail, just basic facts. This is dad wanting us to be on his side.

Just tell it like it is OP and let's all be grown-ups together.

Stop 'changing your mind' regarding DS's access to his father. It's cruel and unfair. Your DS deserves to spend time with both of his parents.

Are you sure it is a child, OP? You know, those things with rights and feelings?

Or is it a cuddly toy you and your ex can wrestle with without doing untold psychological damage?

Ooops littlemisssarcastic a bit of x-post there!

Great minds think alike Caffeine. I don't quite understand it either.

He isn't your possession though?

I think i get it, you kept your son for longer over christmas even though ex was expecting to have him on christmas day, - so when you did hand him over your ex in return kept him longer than you had expected?

I'll tell you what, you play the game fairly and guess what? - so will your ex...

"I don't trust him now" ffs - you set him up to do that and the fool fell for it and now you think you have a reason to stop contact?

Grow up the pair of you.

Poor child, he's not fucking swapsie Pokemon game you know.

"i kept him" "he kept him" sounds like a bloody pet being picked from a shop...