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Thetallestsunflower · 28/12/2011 19:21

Just over a year ago, a night out I had arranged with a mum mate clashed with a nightout my best friend pre children so I decided to introduce both of them to each other and go out the three of us.
Well we had a good night and my two friends hit it off and added each other on facebook. Following this, I went through a spell where I wasn't free for nights out due to moving house and being skint. However my two friends started arranging nights out together. At first this didn't bother me as I couldn't go anyway.
However now my 'best friend' seems to have all the time in the world for my mum friend and none for me. They have 50 comment long discussions on FB and she has invited her DD several times to ride her shetland pony, yet my kids have never had an invite.
This friend and I go back years and have been through loads together, I just can't believe she would drop me like this. Also, she knows really personal stuff about my past and the thought of her maybe gossiping about this with a relatively new friend is also getting to me!

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AnotherMincepie · 28/12/2011 19:47

You need to talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she's a good friend she will listen and understand. If not, then maybe it's time to move on.

skybluepearl · 28/12/2011 19:51

can you organise another group night to get into the circle again? you could also be a bit tongue in cheek and ask where your horse ride is?

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