Would you of called it a day?

[wheremylife]

Dp works long hours,saving for house so I look after the kids alone alot of the time it feels like im a single parent most of the time,I have no life my choice ,I stopped seeing friends ages ago I would just rather stay in with kids.

Dp goes out a few times a week,he does nothing around the house on a Sunday his day of,and I'm starting to resent him.

He takes no care in a his apperance and makes no effort with me at all, I feel unloved tbh,and I dont fancy him anymore im afraid.

I sleep in the dc's room most of the time as he will watch the telly till 12 at night I cant sleep and most of the time im tired with work and looking after dc's,plus he makes me cross as he is so selfish and never goes downstairs to watch telly.

Ive tried to talk, its ok for a bit then goes back to normal I cant spend my life being this miserable,would you call it a day.

aww, I think those are relieved tears

have a glass of hot ginger with me and a mince pie x

let us know how it goes

Thanks AF yes not had a good xmas ,all getting on top of me ,I will let you know thanks,going to pour a glass of wine x.

just one thing

when you have that talk, make it very clear what you need from him

if you are feeling overwhelmed with xmas and family stuff, then something is definitely amiss

can you do it in a non-blaming way like "If we could do this, this and this it would help us "