to think that you shouldn't pay for everyone's dinner except one person's?

[Hullygully]

Even if that one person is really rich?

Are you really rich Hully? I'm hungry, if you fancy sorting my dinner out.

Is there a backstory here? More to this? How can anyone say anything based on your minimalist OP?

How very rude...

Huh?

Stop drip feeding or I will come and replace your washer.

Of course you shouldn't.

Yes, Hulls, are you rich?

Without knowing the back story Hully. I think thats an awful thing to do.

If everyones getting treated, thats it, everyone. I couldn't do this.

It would sort of be credit rating your friends/family.

Nah, defo not on.

Even rich folk need paying for sometimes...YANBU...but spill!

I'm afraid I can't say more, just wanted views. I don't think the circs should be relevant. But sadly no, not me that is richeth.

Hully, can I say summat?

Do you know.... I get a warm fuzzy glow when I see your name now

Fret not, I will probably have a crush on someone else this time next year

As you were!

that is very sweet, Bella. thank you.

No if you are paying for everyone else then it just isn't right to leave someone out.

I think Christmas and the baileys has gone to me head!

Shit. I was getting excited about my dinner. Never mind. YANBU.

My foster mother came out for a meal for my 21st. Amongst doing other horrible things, she paid for everyone else's meal (her own daughters) but not mine. Nasty.

Even if they were so rich they could buy the restaurant several times over and not notice?

And no, am not, was not and probably will never be rich (was a student at the time).

Nah. Our Best Man is super rich - he has a mansion on Lake Austin and has played poker with Bill Gates. We still take it in turns to pay!

Hully Even if its a Russian Oligarch, well espeesh, cos they'd probably get you shot or poisoned or something.

If they're that rich then you tell them that they are paying

When we got married, we went to posh restaurant in London - 4 of us plus dd. He offered to pay. We said no - he was there as our guest.

They might not notice the money but they would surely note the assumptions.

YANBU.

Tis wrong. And rude. And you give me the warm fuzzies too Hulls.

Socialising shouldn't be based on the income of the people you hang out with.
Everyone should take turns in footing the bill.
Excluding people is childish and not very classy.

Look at all the Hully-love. Has she sent you all Naked Candlewick photos?

you is well jel sue