Somehow, whenever there's a family holiday something urgent comes up at work which orevents DH being at home. Being Christmas there's lots to do. For example today I need to supervise DD doing GCSE revision (not easy) other DD has a friend staying. Also need to pick up a broken hoover from one direction and most of the Christmas meal stuff from another, without a car. DH is supposed to be on holiday but announced as soon as I got up that he wouldn't be at home today. When I protested he shouted at me that I had nothing to do. AIBU ?
Should also add that he hasn't really been at home for a week now as he went abroad by himself to visit his family for 4 days. Of COURSE it's horrible that he has to work when he should be on holiday. I'd just like him to acknowledge that it impacts on the whole family if he has to work.