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To think I could have PND two years later?

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sunbathingintherain · 21/12/2011 11:00

Name change. I have two year old DC. I was very down after the birth, due to various complications with the birth and aftermath, but that seemed to clear up after a few months. I was never diagnosed with PND. Since then I've had a number of spells of feeling very down, the worst of which started a few months ago.
We moved house (for the second time since DC was born) and I also went back to work in a high stress, high hours environment, when previously I was a SAHM. Some days it is a struggle to just get on and behave normally. I wake up every morning feeling awful, a terrible mixture of dread and regret. I have times of feeling ok, but then seem to plunge down again, a bit lower every time.

I just starting thinking that maybe this all relates to PND that has never fully been resolved? Some sites say it can occur up to two years later. Or is just plain old depression? Or none of the above I suppose. I haven't been to GP and don't plan to as I don't want depression on my medical records and don't want to take antidepressants. But maybe this is a bit unreasonable in itself...

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Yulewithadragontattoo · 21/12/2011 11:04

I think PND can start any time up to two years after birth. It sounds like you may have had it since quite soon after birth and it has not yet been resolved. It is certainly worth investigating whether it could be PND as there is a lot that can be done. Your Health Visitor can probably do a depression questionnaire with you or go and speak to your GP. I really hope you get some answers as to why you're feeling like this.

troisgarcons · 21/12/2011 11:04

Well, you've had a lot going on in your life lately. Factor in juggling work and home. It can be overwhelming.

However. If you have no intention of seeing your GP and taking his advice, which may not include a depression related diagnosis, then it's pointless asking for opinions on the WWW.

AKMD · 21/12/2011 11:15

What Yule said.

Depression is caused by a chemical inbalance. It is not a reflection on you as a woman or a mother. Please don't be put off seeking help because of worries about it being on your medical records.

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