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Phone for a seven year old? Really?

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Molehillmountain · 20/12/2011 21:55

I always get like this at this time of year as I def don't understand the present buying philosophy of my in laws. Aibu and a bit of a Luddite, or is seven still quite young for a mobile phone even in this day and age?

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betternextlife · 22/12/2011 10:38

worra why didn't they ring her up

they tried, did she didn't answer.....

Goolash · 22/12/2011 13:01

Sorry Molehillmountain Xmas Grin

They're so bliddy cheap these days there's nothing to fight about. If you want to get a 7 year old a cheap camera, get a phone and don't put credit on it. If they want an mp3 player and a couple of simple games, get a phone and don't put credit on it.

Molehillmountain · 22/12/2011 13:38

Ah well, I'm sure I can find something else to be grumpy about-it is Christmas after all!!Grin

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IdRatherBeInDrinkingMulledWine · 22/12/2011 14:16

I dont get why young kids have to have the best gadgets and toys at such a young age. there was a mum in the school playground on Tuesday when the kids finished school. She was going on how she couldnt get hold of a Pink DSi for DD and she will hit the roof if she hasnt got one to open on Christmas Day - bare in mind the DD she is talking about is in my DS1s class in RECEPTION.

Hit the roof?? WTF shes 5 not 15!! get her a doll and a pram, why the need for expensive gifts?

exoticfruits · 22/12/2011 19:08

It doesn't give much to look forward to in the future. It is all too much-too young.
I would let her 'hit the roof' IRBDMW-as far as I'm concerned a list of presents is a wish list only-they may or may not get the things on it.

rhondajean · 22/12/2011 19:31

Looking at my 7 year old, I would say its much too young, although I can certainly see from the other responses that there are particular circumstances where I would have got her one.

She hasnt even expressed any interest in getting one.

mumeeee · 22/12/2011 19:36

YANBU a 7 year old does not need a phones.

Molehillmountain · 28/12/2011 12:23

Well, it wasn't as bad as I thought. Dn now has a camera and a games console. Oh... And it can call people tooGrin. Not my choice but it made him very happy.

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Letchlady · 28/12/2011 20:38

It depends on what freedom the seven year old is allowed.

My DD was given one last year, when she was 7... but we live in a small market town and she has a lot of freedom (certainly compared to many on here who say that their 7 year olds don't need them because they never go anywhere).

My DD is allowed to play out in our road (of about 150 houses), the road behind ours (similar size), over to the park and swings. She's not yet allowed to the nature reserve, but some of her friends are. Further, she has about 8 friends who she can call on, and in the summer they frequently move between houses / park, only returning home for tea.

With a phone, I can allow her this freedom, as my only requirement is that she calls me every so often to keep me updated as to where she and her friends are going next.

As a child, I did the same, but I was sent out with some change and used the phone box instead. Without phoneboxes to use, a mobile phone does the same job.

Of course, if I didn't live in an area where she could go out and play, then of course she wouldn't need one... but I would find that sad.

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