On Christmas day and boxing day we are meeting up with the in laws.
In short, we have had a lot of problems with them since ds was born. I try to let things go over my head as they are very selfish and won't change. However, I feel quite aggrieved having heard their plans for the Christmas meet up.
Not being mean, but I am not bothered about meeting up with them following their behaviour over the past few years, but I go along with it to be civil. I agreed to meet up on both days for a quick catch up etc and said when ds naps ie to avoid that time. Ds is of an age now where he will not nap in car or pushchair and likes his cot.
My husband told me at the weekend that they want to meet us .....when my son is having his nap...in his cot....at home! This is despite knowing when he sleeps and that it's for a good 2 hours! They can't meet later as their other granddaughter naps then. Granddaughter is much older.
They won't budge on these arrangements which means we won't be able to meet up on one of the days and they are bound to cause a fuss about this.
Am I being unreasonable to be annoyed that there is a total lack of consideration for my ds when granddaughters routing is accommodated?