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AIBU to be pissed off with my neighbours

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cheekyseamonkey · 11/12/2011 21:18

My next door neighbours have 5 dogs, we live in a medium sized terrace. The dogs are remarkably well behaved when the owners are at home (the man is a childminder so home most of the day). The trouble is that they all start aggressively barking the minute the owners go out & don't stop until they return. We complained about last Christmas when we had 13 hours of barking, as well as three weeks with a few hours a day as they'd gone to Spain. When they got home we spoke to them & explained the situation. We didn't get an apology, just the excuse that they thought the dog minder would be in all day.

Since then we've put up with a few hours barking each day, most weekends. We've been pretty tolerant of this but recently it's cranked up again & has disturbed our toddler's naps (& mine I'm 6 months pregnant!).

We wrote a letter, in an attempt to get our points across, we'd have preferred to speak to them, but can rarely catch than at home & wanted to sort it before this Christmas.

I was treated to a bang on the door just after dinner tonight. She said i should've complained before. Fine. Then said I should stop my 2 year old from waking her 15 yr old up. My dd2 has slept ttn for the last 11 months, except if I'll(twice?) & wakes up sweetly calling mum at 6.45/7 in the morning! Is that unacceptable. She basically shouted me down for ages. She three out some other bull as well. I feel like we've done nothing to be shouted at for & the comments about my dd are untrue & in any case totally unreasonable! Like I say, he's a childminder!!! We get other people's kids screaming from 7am -5pm every day. I'm fuming , Aibu?

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Annpan88 · 11/12/2011 21:32

YANBU. She sounds like a knob yelling at a fairly heavily pregnant woman over a (what I'm assumung is a) polite note.

SugarPasteChristmasCake · 11/12/2011 21:35

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cheekyseamonkey · 11/12/2011 21:44

Ball achingly polite, considering how pissed off I am, I edited it to reflect a more reasonable me! I know about the council thing sadly we've been through this before in our old house 9 years ago. That was 10x worse & we were trying to start off being reasonable and giving them a chance.

I was holding my toddler at the time too!

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cheekyseamonkey · 11/12/2011 22:06

Besides if I COULD keep an ill 2 year old quiet, I could write a book and make a bleedin' fortune!!!

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frumpet · 12/12/2011 10:42

My friend had the same issue with her neighbour , after seething silently about it for ages she asked the dog owners if they would mind recording the dogs while they were out , she provided the equipment . The dog owners were mortified ,they thought she had been over reacting until they listened to the recording ,their dog didnt pause for breath and the tape ran out while it was still going on. They started to leave the tv on for it and bought one of those toys that you fill with food and it only barked then if someone knocked on the door .
Your neighbours might not be open to the idea , but they dont know what its like because they are out when it happens.
Or you could try recording the noise through the wall and play it back to them at full volume for a while so they get the idea!

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