I am posting in AIBU as I want as many answers as possible and I may well be being unreasonable anyway.
DH and I get housing benefit as he is on a very low income and we have a 18 month old DC still at home (3 others of school age). Before you all start saying that we should not have had DCs if can't afford them without claiming benefits , we COULD afford them but DH was made redundant when I was 4 months pregnant with DC4 and the resulting stress of losing our home after that has meant that I have suffered stress and anxiety symptoms which has meant that I could not go back to work. DH now has a MUCH lower paid job and less hours as I need him around and I am desperately looking for work but am getting nowhere.
So we get HB and struggle like everyone else. We had had several large bills to pay over the last few months. Car repairs cost us £800 (essential for DH to get to work), washing machine broke down etc so DH has had no option but to do overtime to cover this. We can't get any credit at all due to the financial mess we got into when DH lost his job and I was pregnant. I honestly did not know that we had to inform HB about the overtime, I understood it that we had to inform them if his contracted pay changed, i.e. permanent income. It did not occur to us that we had to inform them.
Anyway, we have recently been sent a letter from HB saying they want to review our claim and they wanted DH's payslips. We went in with them and last week, we got a letter saying they want us to come in for a formal interview due to 'discrepancies' in our income
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I am now shitting myself. Did we do wrong trying to cover all our bills? Could we be convicted of a criminal offence?
HELP!!