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AIBU?

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Or are these women just ... argg??

301 replies

Rosieeo · 10/12/2011 23:09

My cat is up a very tall, thin tree behind our house and has been there for three days now. She's 14 and very timid.

We realised she was missing after 24 hours (she is often out overnight) and went looking for her. She wasn't hard to find but will not come down. We've tried food, water, pusspusspussing. She just sits there and mews. So I rang the RSPCA who said that cats up trees normally come down within five days and that they wouldn't call the firemen till then. I mentioned the cold and they said that they'd send someone to assess but not to worry. A woman came out and said to keep encouraging her but that she would come down and if she didn't they would arrange something. Not to try to get to her. Fair enough, I thought.

Fast forward 24 hours and a woman from around the corner and her two friends come to the door. Is that my cat and what's going on? So I explain. They wanted to know why we hadn't tried to get her down. I explained. They asked why I hadn't put ladders up to get her. I'm eight months pregnant, which I thought might speak for itself. So I started to get annoyed, told them to leave it and shut the door.

This morning I went out to the cat and she's 10 foot higher than she was before. Perched in the branches where she was the night before is a bowl, I presume of food.

Midday, the women come round again. All of them. Why haven't I got the cat out of the tree? I pointed out that they had actually forced her further up the tree. Well at least we tried, they said, why haven't I called 999? Because it's not an emergency and costs 500 quid. Wouldn't it be worth it? They ask. Hmm. I told them not to knock again and to leave it to us and the RSPCA. And at this rate the bloody firemen.

As they were leaving, one of them said (very loudly and deliberately) "I feel sorry for her baby if that's how she treats her cat."

Am I being unreasonable to feel somewhat aggrieved?

OP posts:
WhoopsyLa · 11/12/2011 00:56

BadDay it would get the notice of a company with a cherry picker...are you that ignorant of the power of social networking??? A campaign can bring things to the notice of thousands.

Rosieeo · 11/12/2011 00:59

Worra, an awful one obviously. Maybe that's why she doesn't want to come back down?

OP posts:
BadDayAtTheOrifice · 11/12/2011 01:00

She is trying stuff. It seems unbelievable that people believe that a facebook campaign will solve it all.

Ring you're local radio station in the morning to publicise your predicament. Far more likely to get some help that way. Maybe the local fire brigade will be unindated with calls from a concerned public and feel obliged to help out.

Moominsarescary · 11/12/2011 01:01

As long as the company with the cherry picker were close and they had the trailer to move it on site , dp says there is no way the company he is working for at the moment would do it, it would take them most of the day to organise, not to mention putting them behind with work

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 11/12/2011 01:01

Surely on facebook you have to search for that sort of thing.
Or should I be looking on it every day incase someones pet needs rescuing?

WhoopsyLa · 11/12/2011 01:04

badday you obviously have not rread the thread because someone (me) suggested the radio station way up thread and OP has not once responded to that or any other ideas. and no...you don't have to search...all it takes is that you ask your FB friends to like the page and it get's passed aound and around.

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 11/12/2011 01:05

But she's not on facebook and therefore would have no friends and would bring this to the attention of....no-one.

MrsRhettButler · 11/12/2011 01:06

Don't cats do this all the time? They always come down don't they?

WhoopsyLa · 11/12/2011 01:07

this cat was rescued by tree surgeons after an appeal on radio.

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 11/12/2011 01:07

Oh, and I (and most people I know) mostly ignore the 'please like this page' pile of crap anyway.

WhoopsyLa · 11/12/2011 01:08

But Badday a normal person would have thought about asking one of th people on here to do it for them...and anyway that was not your question...your question was based upon your assumption that a FB appeal was stupid.

ZacharyQuack · 11/12/2011 01:08

It can't be that impossible to get up to the cat, considering someone has already done it, carrying a bowl of food.

MrsRhettButler · 11/12/2011 01:08

You could look at it from another angle and say that she must be a good owner for keeping the cat alive for 14 years.

WhoopsyLa · 11/12/2011 01:09

Well you're lovely too then aren't you badday Hmm

WhoopsyLa · 11/12/2011 01:10

It's old and it's stuck MrsRhett and a 14 year old cat can't last long like that. So people are worried for it. Unbelievable as itmay seem to some, there are people who love animals so much that it's upsetting to think of one in pain or afraid.

Moominsarescary · 11/12/2011 01:10

Well as someone has already been up the tree and not m
managed to get the cat down it can't be that easy

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 11/12/2011 01:12

A 'normal person'
I'm 'lovely too'
Oh my God.

Just because I think a Facebook campaign is not going to solve this. Reality check anyone?

WhoopsyLa · 11/12/2011 01:12

no but there's only so much you cando with stationary ladder.

MsCellophane · 11/12/2011 01:13

What is the OP supposed to do at this time of night?

Some people on this thread are horrid. Most cats do come down on their own accord, this one may have come down if the other women hadn't scared it higher.

I'm sure the OP will look into suggestions tomorrow but I don't get the hate she is receiving this evening

MrsRhettButler · 11/12/2011 01:13

Has it rained yet? Cats don't like water do they, if you spray the tree above it with water it will start to edge down?

WhoopsyLa · 11/12/2011 01:13

Oh do let the FB thing go Badday...you're rambling now.

MrsRhettButler · 11/12/2011 01:16

Also op, YANBU the women clearly forced the cat up further they shouldn't have one that without informing you.

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 11/12/2011 01:16

I'm not rambling. Just amazed at how fucking rude and insulting some people are.

MrsRhettButler · 11/12/2011 01:18

I don't get amazed any more badday, when I first joined MN I thought 50% of the posters were trolls Grin

craftyknickers · 11/12/2011 01:19

And this is why I hate AIBU, poor poor OP that's all I can say.

If this is the way some of you speak to people online I dread to think how rude you are in RL.

Regardless of someone's love for animals I don't feel the OP deserved any of this!

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