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To think my sister is being awkward

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EllenandBump · 10/12/2011 20:22

Apparently it is my fault she has a cold! I havent even got one, the reason i was sniffling was cos i kept going from hot to cold and cos i had been crying, so hoiw unfair is that. She then on friday night announces she needs mum to dog sit and will drop the dogs off about mid day for mum, cos she has to go to hospital on monday to have an ecg done. She is only doing it at mid day though, i am sure because she knew i had a dentist appointment booked for which i paid £20 deposit, for 12 on monday. Is this just coincidence, but she done it last year on my birthday, and for two days before and two days after. She cant leave the dogs indoors cos susie who is only a puppy destroys any paper. But thats not my fault. She also always has a go at me for never doing anything, but all i have been doing is running around osting things, on phone calls, and jumping through hoops. She even said i was being selfish cos mum took my son for ten minutes while i had my blood test done! yet she can dump the dogs on her from 6.45 am until god knows what time that night!

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EllenandBump · 10/12/2011 21:59

I do feel for mum bless her, she always is a piggy in the middle, and not just between me and my sister, but absolutly everyone or so it seems. I know the world doesnt revolve around me, but i havent told her she cant go to appointments etc and i am not asking anyone to come with me!

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Pandemoniaa · 10/12/2011 22:04

Why don't you both give your mother a break? I know you are having a difficult time at the moment but to be honest, I'd have thought the pair of you could be a little more thoughtful. Certainly, from reading your comments on this thread I thought you must both be about 13.

If you can't get on with your sister without constant squabbling then keep your distance and don't be drawn into her attempts to wind you up.

EllenandBump · 10/12/2011 22:23

I am not squabbling with her, thats why i am moaning on here, so i dont argue with her. I am trying to keep the peace as much as possible so thought i would get my anger out on here and then i would be all calm and placid to my sister, mum doesnt need any arguements, although it does seem to infuriate my sister that i havent risen to her, but not my fault!

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