to consider another baby?

[slightlymadmum]

I have 3 lovley boys. 11, 8 and 3.

Part of me would like another child (prehaps thats what some women do, keep wanting babies/being broody)

Anyway I have had 5 miscarriages/ectopic pregnancies (4 of those in 7 years). I have also been diagnoised with a medical condidtion which may or may not reaccur (not even sure it is compatible with a baby or treatment that I would want/need ie pain relief)

I also suffer from depression, varies from mild to pretty bad).

I haven't got an over whelming need, I just think, that would be nice/don't want to regret not having number 4.

I find life pretty tough sometimes as it is.

I am BU aren't I?

I think you need to resolve your health issues before even considering trying for another child, and be happy and content with what you already have.

What does the father say? Surely his view matters?
Ask yourself why you would like another child if you find your life pretty tough.
I think you probably are BU.

dial he is happy either way but thinks its probably better to stay as we are.