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to think if my home birth service is suspended, i should be allowed to transfer to another home birth team?

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rednosedreindeerhead · 07/12/2011 14:43

My hospital has just announced it's suspended it's home birth service. I hate hospitals and was quite definitely and massively up for a home birth in 6 weeks time....

Prior to this, seeing how my hospital was struggling, I already enquired at another hospital nearby whether I might transfer to their home birth team, but they said no on postcode grounds, which I totally understand. But if a service is actually then suspended for sure is it unreasonable to suggest that the tiny amount of women who would like to give birth at home in that time frame be allowed to transfer to another home birth team?

If a hospital nearby had the capability, and the space to at least say that they would try and send someone to my house, shouldn't that be allowed, maybe by law? I feel pretty strongly that it is my right to give birth in my own home....

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dobeessneeze · 08/12/2011 18:29

She was phenomenal. I still think about her all the time. I think I'm a little bit in love with her.

DD got stuck on the way out and the other midwife couldn't seem to stretch me quite enough to get her head out. In steps the main midwife, does something magical and the next thing a baby has exploded out of me. When I asked what that was all about, the other midwife said that the main one just pushed harder on my perineum than she has ever seen, and that she would never have dared to do it for fear of what it would do to me. Not a scratch on me. She was so experienced and really knew what she was doing.

I really think a bit of all that oxytocin flying around me latched on to the midwife instead of the baby. I really do think I love her.

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