YANBU.
I am married to a man who thinks like Mr Gove.
I am self-employed and my husband in an employee of a large company. However, guess who is expected to cover childcare during periods of sickness and strikes? Yep, the self-employed female, me.
However, thanks to that mind-set, as from next week, I am out of work. Long story but the consequences (that is, single income for Christmas) are only begining to hit my husband.