Advice help?!

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Am I being unreasonable?
In retaliation to me shouting at my husband for not making
the bed(prior to a house viewing)for which apologised my husband
got drunk & stormed out the house at 1am until 5am:went to a lap
dancing club & staggered home covered in injuries.
Somehow I have been blamed for this.
Our relationship is in dire straits.What would you do:help?!

WWID?

I'd be packing him off elsewhere for a few days to have a good think about our relationship properly, especially if you already say your relationship is in dire straits - it would seem that the plan of moving house would be the ideal time to clear out any unnecessary clutter.

It is not your fault, it is entirely his and he sounds like an arse.

You're both in the wrong. Shouting at someone for not making the bed was an OTT reaction to a trivial problem. A four-hour bender in response to being shouted at was also OTT. If your relationship is in dire straits it's because the civility has gone out of it and you no longer treat each other with the respect you'd give strangers, let alone friends. Some time apart might take the immediate stress out of the situation but I don't think you'll get anywhere until you have an honest conversation about why you're both so angry.

I am with flisspaps. Would be telling him not to bother coming back. I think you were a bit OTT at shouting at him, but to be honest his reaction to that was ridiculous. If you relationship is already in dire straits then I would be seriously thinking about ending on the back of that.

Is your relationship in trouble anyway? Or just since the incident/s

Make him spend 3 hours at a Craft Fair.

That'll learn him.

Post in relationships. They'll tell you to leave him.

Hilarious exquisitely done .