To be glad that I didn't have my children until I was a proper grown up and therefore..

[seeker]

...able to distinguish between real and imagined slights, between intentional unkindness and thoughtlessness and between difference of approach and deliberate "enemy action".

"I like larking about and dancing around with the children and being silly. Definitely not a grown up"

You can do that and still do that!

I still don't feel like a proper grown up!

And am having to sit on my hands to stop myself posting something sarcastic on the "born in 1980" thread, as I'm old enough to be their mother.