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to only wash bath towels once a month?

657 replies

starkadder · 25/11/2011 14:58

or less Blush

DH is in charge of washing his own towel and I am sure he never puts it in the wash more often than once every 2 or 3 months...

DS's goes in about once every 2 months (but it barely touches him as he likes to run around naked pretending to be a train driver straight after his bath, which dries him quite effectively).

I usually wash mine about every month but have realised that I haven't washed it since coming home from hospital with DD, who is now 5 weeks...in my defence, there is one HECK of a lot of other washing to do and it just won't ever fit in the machine....

We do wash out clothes (!) and sheets once a week. And I do the kitchen hand towel every week or two - it gets quite grubby and also fits in the machine with another wash easily.

But are we grim and disgusting when it comes to bath towels? How often do normal people wash bath towels?

OP posts:
Fo0ffysFestiveShmooffery · 26/11/2011 12:48

Yabu - I wash them after every use.

RainboweBrite · 26/11/2011 12:55

I know I've banged on a bit about doing my bit for the environment, but I admit to doing towels, bedding and bath mats/rugs on 60 degrees, and most other stuff on 40 or 50 degrees. I use Ecover laundry liquid and fabric conditioner,(I only use bio on bathmats/rugs, and they get washed once a month) so I think it needs the higher temperatures to work well, and as I only do 4-5 washes a week, feel I can get away with this.
If I used bio powder and put the machine on once or twice every day, I would feel compelled to wash at a lower temperature.

cantspel · 26/11/2011 13:11

Do people really expect a clean bath towel every day in a hotel?

When we stay in hotels there is usually a note in the bathroom saying if you want a clean towel leave the dirty in the bath and they will change it otherwise they just refold and put back on the rack.

StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes · 26/11/2011 13:19

thanks fellatio, for some reason its just the towels but I am off to buy some bicarb and will try a hotter wash.

alemci · 26/11/2011 13:36

I still don't get why people wouldn't have their own towels. we have a hand towel in both bathrooms for drying hands but we all shower in the morning so I don't particularly want to use someone elses wet towel.

if we had guests I would give them their own towel to use and wash it afterwards.

I wouldn't want to change towels everyday though, too much washing

miaowmix · 26/11/2011 13:50

Skanky I'm afraid.
There are only 3 of us but we still sometimes do 3 washes a day - and yes, bath towels at least once a week, and all whites on 90 degrees. I refuse to ming, end of.
I physically couldn't stay the night at someone's house if there were dirty bed sheets or towels. Yuk.

TheOriginalFAB · 26/11/2011 15:24

A washing machine engineer told me it isn't good for the machine to wash a full load of towels at once. You would be better washing one or two towels with other clothes.

ouryve · 26/11/2011 15:30

But I wash towels at a much higher temperature than clothes and use fabric conditioner on clothes, but not towels, since it makes them less absorbent.

Ariesgirl · 26/11/2011 15:31

Seventeen pages on towel laundry? Confused These threads never go well:
You're skanky.
No I'm not.
I wash my towels every time I go near them and have a bath every half an hour.
I wash mine every year and I don't think that's gross.
Well I strip wash using my dirty knickers.
Yuck, you DISGUST me.
What's wrong with that?

Etc.

LeQueen · 26/11/2011 15:33

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Clarabumps · 26/11/2011 15:39

I wash my towels after every use..the thought of not doing so gives me the heave. I also wash the dish towels after they are used- fresh one every day. The kitchen one is more disgusting than the bath towel to be honest.. YUUUUCKK!!

Ariesgirl · 26/11/2011 15:42

Not trying to stir but can I ask what some of you would do if it was 1976 and there were standpipes in the street for all your water needs? It will happen again someday.

mumblecrumble · 26/11/2011 15:59

I check the towels now and again and when they smell they get put onto a pile nbear the wash basket until there's enough for a full load of towels. [well, about 3/4 so not too heavy].

FellatioNelson · 26/11/2011 16:29

In a households of five people who all bathe/shower daily, I would spontaneously combust if I had to wash all of out towels after every use. It's just not necessary and there would never be time to do any non-towel laundry!

Once a week is sufficient unless menstruating, or unless there has been some other bodily-fluid related catastrophe. And hand-towels may get replaced slightly more often if they have too much toothpaste gob on them.

alemci · 26/11/2011 16:31

so would I fellatio, there are 5 of us too and as you say there is enough laundry without doing towels every day.

FellatioNelson · 26/11/2011 16:32

It does depend on your ability to hang them up and air them after using though - if you have a cramped bathroom with insufficient hanging space, they will get dank and smelly much quicker.

Fo0ffysFestiveShmooffery · 26/11/2011 16:37

I'm beginning to think I have an issue. I hate the thought that I would be drying my face with the bit that previously dried a bottom.Blush As clean and shiny as that bottom may be. If I could get over this I would save myself a lot of time and money in washing.

ExquisiteCake · 26/11/2011 16:48

I was our towels every 2 days but we aren't constricted to one each. Sheets are washed up to twice a week. Washing machine is on at least twice a day... And I'm due next week and back onto cloth nappies! It's a fair trade off for the environment, I use Terry's and the washing machine lots!!

marzipananimal · 26/11/2011 17:03

Fo0ffy I have a separate (smallish) face towel so I don't dry my face with my (infrequently washed) bath towel. Maybe this could be the answer?

bibbitybobbitybloodyaxe · 26/11/2011 17:17

Look, everyone should do what I do and then there would be no problem:

Each member of the household has their own bath towel (in our house it is white for me, pastel colours for the dc, bright colours for dh) which are changed weekly. They are hung up to dry on radiator airers in their bedrooms.

Hands and faces are dried on a hand towels. These are changed every day or two and hang up to dry on the heated towel rail in the bathroom.

All towels, flannels, sheets and teatowels are washed on a minimum 60 deg wash, not with other clothing, but separated into whites and colours. For a family of four with a fairly large washing machine, this usually works out to a load of hot whites once a fortnight and hot colours once a fortnight.

So, so, so, easy.

LeQueen · 26/11/2011 17:22

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FellatioNelson · 26/11/2011 17:29

Well you say that Bibs, but clearly some people just don't get it. Grin

It's a mystery to me how they can manage to make a relatively simple thing so complicated, but they do. Confused

(we haver a similar system to Bibbity's but with a slightly more haphazard approach to colour-coded towel ownership. What this means in practice is that I give everyone their own towel once a week, and they just leave it wet on the floor and take someone else's when they need a dry one.)

rhondajean · 26/11/2011 18:32

Sad to say I have been thinking about this all day, and remain unswayed, you are still all mingers.

I thought the please put your towels in the bath if you want them washed in a hotel was so that they didnt wash UNUSED towels, not so that you could reuse them.

So I thought you might all find this of interest:

Dr. Philip tierno
"the secret life of germs"
"Showering does not erradicate the germs that are on your skin and in your body."

And overtime that could pile up to no good.

Andrea fontaine Foods research labs.
"Viruses, bacteria anything that can remain on a towel and survive can be transfered."

We tested towels from 6 busy families.

The towels were used as many as 4 or more times; often by more than one person.

And as anyone with kids might expect , the families admit the towels probably spent a little time on the bathroom floor.

Melissa bishop/towel tested
"It's very hard to be perfectly clean."

If those towels could talk, these petri dishes show what they would say.

The towels are loaded with bacteria.

The most disturbing discovery, staph bacteria, that could cause skin infections or food poisoning if you dry your hands on an infected towel and then eat.

Andrea Fontaine Foods Research Labs.
"The towel could be used as a way to contaminate some one else if you share your towel and recontaminate yourself if you're re-using your towel."

Melissa Bishop/Family "Oh how gross. I didn't think a towel would be a germy thing."

Dr. Philip Tierno wrote the book on germs.

He says you can avoid risks by following a few simple steps.

For starters, lay out your towel so it dries completely after every use...simply hanging it on a hook may not cut it.

Dr. Philip Tierno
"The Secret Life of Germs"
"You can cut down on the number of staph that survive. But if you let it sort of grow in a nice damp environment you can increase the staph count on the towel."

Plus, make sure your towel never touches the floor and don't share it.

Experts say you should wash your towel after 2 uses and if you have any skin problems like acne wash it everytime you use it.

Andrea Fontaine Foods Research Labs.
"You could end up re-infecting yourself or prolonging the healing process."

To avoid cross contamination, wash your towels separately from your clothes and use a detergent with a santizing agent.

Plus, the permanent press cycle and using cold water saves energy but it won't necessarily get rid of all germs.

Also, experts say when you're sick it's a good idea to only use your towel once before washing it.

oldenglishspangles · 26/11/2011 18:55

Towels only used once in this house, washed @ 90deg on intensive wash with two rinses + www.eradicil.co.uk/ or if out of money : 1st rinse vinegar, 2nd rinse dettol. And abolutely nosharing Different towel for body and feet too. +

WillbeanChariot · 26/11/2011 19:06

Has anyone mentioned The League of Gentlemen yet?

Something like...
White for head,
Brown for feet,
Green for torso, knees and seat,
And in the cupboard 'neath the stair...
You'll find the RED for PUBIC HAIR!

I accept that the majority opinion is that I am a skank. But washing bath towels every day is complete lunacy.