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pleased to be seperated for 1 yr from ex-h so why I am jealous he has a GF now????

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Boobalina · 21/11/2011 22:24

I dont understand it?! He was in the main a crap husband but is a caring Dad. We seperated mutally a whole year ago, I have never once looked back. He asked me if we 'made a mistake' and should we try again - I flatly and kindly so no, not ever never will we do that again. That was in July.

Now he has his first GF (dating since Aug i think?) and I feel really horrid about it?!

I've not met her, nor have the kids either. I dont ask him about it, he did initially blurt out he wasnt sure about her, had a huge block about the whole thing, couldnt be 'intimate' with her etc.... however, he has now introduced her to some mutal friends and I think he is taking her to meet his family this weekend.

I feel replaced, but I dont want him.

I am probably being v.u I know...

(Plus I am single with NOTHING on horizon... I may have to buy a cat soon to bolster my spinster image)

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itsalladirtylie · 21/11/2011 23:34

that is really really what I think though:)
we all run through all sorts of stuff in out minds, brood and wallow in stuff, the thing, I guess, is knowing not to act on things!

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