you should not push in front of people in queues?
Weird experience at the weekend which I can't work out my emotional response to.
Went to local shop with DD (3). About 70 people hanging around in fancy dress, mostly teens / 20s / 30s and some older. They seem hung over and are being loud, sweary, a bit showy-offy and it's a bit intimadating going past them.
In shop they are buying lager, shouting across shop laughing and joking. I'm at queue with small DD when 30ish man dressed as gorilla pushes in front of us. I say 'I was there', gorilla replies 'My mate saved me a place', I respond 'We are in a shop not at school' in my iciest tone. Gorilla moves behind us.
Outside shop I notice that one of the fancy dress people was holding a bucket with a handwritten notice 'xxxx died on xxxx and will be missed, donations welcome' I couldn't see any particular charity name but it may have been there. Then I notice that some of the people are wearing shirts with 'xxx RIP' on them.
The whole thing was odd. On one hand I could see that a community had come together to express their grief in some way. But AIBU to have found their way of doing it odd and slightly disconcerting.