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to consider a change of career at my age? dh thinks so

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lilitaly · 20/11/2011 16:55

i'm 43, and have worked in logistics/distribution for most of my life. in the last few years, it's been co-ordination duties for ad hoc projects - i do a lot of client facing stuff too - heavily focused on new business side of things (not at the sales side though, i can't sell!).

dh works for the same co. - warehouse work - that's how we met Smile but we don't work on the same site, i'm at head office, and he's at one of the distribution centres.

a new (internal) vacancy has come up which they've decided not to advertise externally until after chrismas if they can't fill it. it's a role where the job title is as a business analyst - normally i wouldn't pay much attention to moving jobs as i'm quite content (if a bit bored) where I am - but i read the job description on the intranet on friday lunchtime and for the first time in years my heart gave a little flutter of excitement. it sounds like it's the sort of thing i've been moving into on an informal level for about 5 years, but technically i'm still under my same job title ('project co-ordinator' in my contract)

i want to apply, but i'm not sure if i'm being daft! and my stomach has been in knots all weekend about it.

Pro's are:
the actual duties involved aren't that far removed from what i'm expected to do already
training is covered (don't know what that entails though)
the starting wage is £19k more than i'm on right now Shock
i'd apply as an internal candidate, so maybe a good reference from my boss would count strongly?

Con's:
job ad says international travel maybe needed (who'd look after the kids if i was away and DH was on shifts?)
i'm suspicious at the salary listed - either i've been underpaid hugely all these years or the duties involved are much more complex than i've picked up on?
i don't have a degree, so don't meet 1 of the essential bits of criteria
as DH says, would i be able to cope with extra pressure or training courses at my age? i haven't been in any formal eduaction for 20 years - what if i apply, get it, and can't cope?

am i totally mad to consider applying for this? i don't really have anything to lose - do I?

OP posts:
Onemorning · 20/12/2011 13:22

Massive YAY to you OP! That's such brilliant news!

Bramshott · 20/12/2011 13:24

Wow - what a fantastic result!

GlueSticksEverywhere · 20/12/2011 13:27

I wouldn't worry about the degree too much, experience is hugely valuable, especially when it's within the same company!

as DH says, would i be able to cope with extra pressure or training courses at my age? i haven't been in any formal eduaction for 20 years - what if i apply, get it, and can't cope?

on paper i probably look stupid for wanting to apply, at least that's what DH said - he is supportive but he says i shouldn't get my hopes up because on paper i won't probably get past the application bit (even if i do warn my boss in advance and risk asking for a glowing reference to attach)

It does sound like he might be trying to (unconsciously, possibly!) hold you back. It sounds as though he may feel threatened. You say he does warehouse work so he might feel that you and your career are going to leave him behind or make him look bad in comparison. If I am right then he is being a twat!

Go for it. From what you've said it sounds to me like you have a decent chance. If you don't apply you will always wonder.

GlueSticksEverywhere · 20/12/2011 13:29

Oops! Sorry didn't realise it was an update . . . CONGRATULATIONS! Well done!

Is your DH pleased?

DeckTheHugeWithBoughsOfManatee · 20/12/2011 13:30

Do it! Do it! Do it!

DeckTheHugeWithBoughsOfManatee · 20/12/2011 13:31

Ooooh! Was an update! You got it?

WELL DONE!!! Xmas Smile

DoesNotGiveAFig · 20/12/2011 13:32

Wow, congratulations, well done! Grin

cestlavielife · 20/12/2011 13:33

apply. your experience makes up for not having a degree.

cestlavielife · 20/12/2011 13:34

oh re- read - congrats!!

maybe a live in au pair is feasible ?

FootprintsInTheSnow · 20/12/2011 14:01

Congrats also - finished reading now Grin.

How old are your DC. For schoolies, I find CM to be a very useful standby option. They'll often be able to be more flexible - almost ^in loco grandparentis, if yu get what I mean.

lilitaly · 20/12/2011 14:19

THANK YOU all! DCs are (almost) 13, 11 and 9 now. DH has been very supportive, he has asked at work for information on changing from his ad hoc shifts to more regular ones - apparently in the warehouse they're struggling to get people to do the earlies (7am - 3pm) the last few months without a fuss, but DH could do that np (in exchange for knowing his shifts a bit more in advance - win/win basically - we have a more regular work shift pattern that i know in advance, and they get someone who can commit to doing the earlies on a regular basis).

SORTED! Grin

OP posts:
CMOTdibbler · 20/12/2011 14:20

Congratulations !

If it is only the odd trip, and you'll have plenty of notice, then the logistics will work out

yellowraincoat · 20/12/2011 14:24

Yippee. Happy thread time! And right before Christmas, what great news.

Well done OP!

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