DCs are 19 and 14. DP has announced decided that he is going to be spending it in his new house (he moved out of mine a few months ago to avoid doing housework get some manspace and be closer to his work). His DCs (10 and 12) will be staying with him.
I have a flimsy invite to join him but am put off by the fact his mother, whose disdain for me is tangible, will be there.
On the premise that I shouldn't have to put my kids through her witchedy crotchety ways all xmas day, I want to stay home and will probably be glum in the kitchen secretly.
Obvs the bigger picture is that something is rotten in the State of Denmark, but I'm wondering how much other MNers would put themselves out if they didn't have to.