DS3 (age 2.5) spends a lot of him time running around shooting things with plastic guns and ersatz weapons. He shouts 'I kill you!' while doing so. He watches a lot of Dr Who and Indiana Jones illicitly with his big brothers.
He also like teddies and trains too.
To help him prepare for nursery, where I thought he might be in trouble for being a bit violent, I bought him a wooden pram, reasonably gender neutral, that won some sort of design award. I thought he could put things in there such as teddies and trains, and push them around, and get in touch with his caring side.
It's this one, although I paid about half of that.
My dad has had a fit and said that I will make him too soft. He says it is a hard world and getting him pushing prams around will ruin him. 
AIBU?