Used to work in a call centre and started getting to know this woman, we'll call her Katie. She was an absolute hoot, we're still in contact, she's one of my best friends.
While we were there this bloke, we'll call him Carl, started working there. She and Carl hit it off and started going out. They were so unbelievably flirty together that it would sometimes affect their work, but no-one seemed to really care.
While Katie and Carl were going out he started talking to me, and right from the off he struck me as cheesy, slimy, greasy and a bit of a cad. He was overly friendly with a lot of women, would make inappropriate sexual comments and contact "by accident"... he was just generally a bit of a twunt, but according to Katie he never cheated because they lived in eachothers pockets and she'd "just know".
They separated, and then I moved away. He has recently added me on Facebook and so I thought "Why not? Would be nice to check in occasionally". Occasionally.
Ever since he's left posts on my wall that I've deleted, he's started talking to me in Chat ever single time I sign on, he's begged me for my mobile so he can text me, he comments on almost every single status I put up...
I just delete it all and I've told him that we were never that close, he doesn't need to be quite so clingy, I have a partner so he has no business being overly friendly and he's making me feel very uncomfortable.
I've put him on a limited profile and he's now completely gone off the deep end, wanting to know why we can't talk, and if my DP is that jealous of "us" I should just dump him, which he'd love because he wants to come up and see my DS as "he's such a gorgeous baby boy".
I have no problems telling people no, but this bloke just isn't taking the hint! I've even tried removing him as a friend, but he sent me messages every day, guilt-tripping me into adding him again! I've threatened him with action from DP but he doesn't seem to care....
AIBU in thinking this bloke is just completely insane, and he should have gotten the hint last time when I told him "to fuck off to the far end of fuck"?!