to feel excluded and sad

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My brother and sister are really close and always seem to be doing things with each other, like going to the cinema, meals etc and they are going to Moscow in a couple of weeks. I'm never invited and it sometimes make me feel very sad as although I know I'm older (31) and he's (22) and she's (25) they barely recognise my existence. I've tried asking them and I get a lukewarm response at best. DH says that its just a matter of age difference and that I should just be happy with my lot and accept that I'll never be that close to them.

maybe you tend to boss them about, spoil their fun etc

do you report back to mum continually?

could be a million things why

YANBU it does sound horrible and very selfish of them but don't give up. You could try being with both of them individually and see where that goes. I am slightly of their trip though.