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to be p*ssed off with DH over house purchase negotiation?

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Zeeky · 14/11/2011 20:00

To cut a long story short, put in an offer on a house. They accepted offer but wanted extra £10k for fixtures & fittings. The list they came up with was ridiculous. I wrote down some thoughts and what I thought our options were with regards to negotiating the price. Option 1 being, we up our offer by £5k to include all F&F except curtains (they are horrid anyway) plus cash for whatever oil is in the tank on completion - this would have been our next offer had they turned our original offer down. Option 2 being that we up offer by £10k so we are paying same as they wanted anyway, but without the hassle of the separate transaction.

DH has been doing all the the negotiating with the estate agents. He phoned them today, and instead of putting our option 1 to them as our new and final offer, he basically outlined to them both of our offers and gave them the choice! So of course the vendors accept option 2!! What a frickin muppet!!! He doesn't understand why I am slightly narked, saying "you wrote down what the options were". Yes, but not for you to read out to the EA. They were supposed to be OUR options. If Option 1 failed, then pursue option 2!!! He is a notorious tight-arse, so I am really annoyed that he has handed them an extra £5k without any fight. There goes my curtain & furniture budget for when we move in! Angry

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LineRunnerSaturnalia · 14/11/2011 20:05

I think you should have had Option Zero - take it leave it.

But I get your point. Poor negotiating skills from Mr Zeeky.

Zeeky · 14/11/2011 20:16

Yes, you are probably right *LineRunnerSaturnalia" - we should have just said NO to the F&F. That's why I think our Option ! was a more than generous offer and that Option 2 was just an emergency back-up in case they played hard-ball.

He's all upset now (working away, so can only talk to him on the phone), saying he is under so much pressure at work that he wasn't thinking straight, and that I should have briefed him better! He has got a really senior sort of job, so it's not like he's not used to negotiating, or understanding complicated information! Grrrrr

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NotOurRabbit · 14/11/2011 20:28

Agree, no other offer- infact, withdraw the silly offer from today and tell them to accept or decline original offer.

DamnBamboo · 14/11/2011 20:33

Just withdraw it and say DH made a mistake.
Table the original as a take it or leave it .

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