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Wwyd cyclist, dark, no lights..

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Atwaroverscrabble · 12/11/2011 21:01

hi,

Just had a little accident and wanted to know if what i was thinking of doing was ok or not...

Basically i dropped ds(12) off to a party this evening, it was dark and i was sat at the t junction waiting to pull out, cars parked either side of junction. A couple of cars went past and i thought it was clear but it wasnt... A cyclist suddenly appeared from beside the parked cars and collided with the front of my car.

I reversed back into the junction and asked if he was ok etc, he was fine but his front wheel was bent, he didnt have any lights on which is why i didnt see him coming...

He didnt want to give me his details etc but asked uf i could give him a lift which i did ( was on his way to tesco for port for a dinner party) and in the car we chatted. Turns out we are both at the same uni but he's a 2nd year undergrad and i'm near the end of my phd. He was very calm and polite about the accident and didnt want anything but i insisted he gives me his details and that i will email him to find out about fixing his bike (his friend works at a bike shop abd will get a discount anyway) and i reminded him to get lights for his own safety plus they are issuing fines here at the moment..

Now, i am very skint and i am aware he is not but i feel bad about the bike even thought it may not really be my fault but what i am thinking of doing is sending him a set of light with a card and probably £20 in it towards his front wheel... What do you guys think?

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Sidge · 12/11/2011 22:14

I think you've done enough really.

He's lucky it wasn't a more serious accident. I don't have much sympathy for cyclists without lights. Not only are they unlit they are also silent - unlike a car you can't even hear them before you see them.

I had a fright on the way home from work last night - 1800, dark, no street lighting and a woman (I think) in dark clothing pushing a dark pram just walked across the road in front of my car. I only saw her in time to stop because I saw her outline against a car coming the other way's lights.

My heart almost stopped.

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