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To have a rant about a man!

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TheDetective · 29/10/2011 21:32

I can't believe I let rip at the guy who came to fit a tracker in DP's car yesterday Blush. Was I being unreasonable however...!

Guy sent from insurance company to fit the tracker as DP has a limited mileage policy. He turned up at 1250 (due between 1300-1700) and I leave for work at 1300. I looked out the window just to make sure he hadn't parked across the drive - as people coming have a habit of doing... he hadn't parked there. Got on with getting ready for work, and glanced out the window 2 minutes later, to find he had pulled DP's car on to the last metre of the drive, and the rest of the car was on the pavement completely blocking it from all pedestrians. He had then parked his car directly across DP's, on the main road. Anyone trying to walk past had to cross a busy main road.

Shouted for DP and told him to tell the man to move the cars, as I was about to leave for work, and he would make me late (plus it was blocking the pavement). He told the guy - response was to say 'ok, just switch the cars around'. DP said this wasn't possible as he wasn't insured for my car (I was getting my uniform on before leaving at this point). The guy tells my DP 'it doesn't matter, you're only moving it off the drive' (on to a main road!!!!!). Quite reasonably DP refused. DP came back to me to tell me what was going on. I said to him to tell the man to move the cars now, and gave the man a VERY valid reason for why he must move them now and not prevent me from getting to my work. He went back out to tell the man, and he still didn't move the cars. At this point I was 30 seconds away from walking out the door, so sent DP again to tell the guy he must move now as he was going to prevent me from getting to work on time.

He still didn't move!!!!!!!! I came out the house and literally let rip at him Blush. Can't remember exactly what I said, but needless to say he got the sharp end of my tongue - which is totally not me. His response was he hadn't moved the cars because I hadn't come out the house yet!!!! Its a main road, it takes time to back off the drive, and he had 2 cars to move!!!!

I think he was being completely unreasonable in blocking my car in, and blocking the entire pavement on the main road (which is illegal). He was unreasonable to be asked 3 times in 10 minutes to move the cars, and not to do so. I am going to complain to the company. Who was being unreasonable?!

BTW, before any one asks - my car lives on the drive because that's what I declare on my insurance - dp's is parked on the road because that's what we said when we took his insurance out. The car was parked with the side he needed to do the work towards the pavement - so no excuse for needing to move the car for safety. Anyway - what would he have done if we had no drive?!

Sorry for the rant - It really has annoyed me - rudeness and ignorance get on my nerves!

OP posts:
schobe · 29/10/2011 21:36

I will never get those minutes back that I spent reading that.

YABU. Massive overreaction.

squeakyfreakytoy · 29/10/2011 21:38

Jeeeeeeeze....

You sound a bloody nightmare.

Please tell me, you said you were getting your uniform on.. are you a traffic warden? Because you sound like an utter jobsworth.

NinkyNonker · 29/10/2011 21:39

Total overreaction. He parked on your drive to do a job for you...'letting rip' at him...I think perhaps 'rudeness and ignorance' on both sides?

ChaosTrulyReigns · 29/10/2011 21:41

Oh.

Have you finished work now?

Could you have a gentle drink and a relax?

It really wasn't a major thing, don't waste your energy on it all.

[man]

worraliberty · 29/10/2011 21:42

Biscuit So he didn't jump when you told your DH to tell him to move the cars

Biscuit He decided to move them when you made an appearance

Biscuit If having to wait for him to move two cars was going to make such a huge difference, you're leaving for work way too late.

Biscuit Getting caught at a couple of sets of traffic lights would make you just as late.

Biscuit I'm going for the whole packet of Biscuit's here by the way.

Icelollycraving · 29/10/2011 21:43

Get a grip. Seriously. Poor sod!

NearlyLeglessEuphemia · 29/10/2011 21:43

YANBU - stupid arse, I'd have been furious too.

It's not like you just walked out and ripped him a new one; he had been asked three times! It's not his place to question you - you're the client, FFS!

DogsBeastFiend · 29/10/2011 21:44

You overreacted and made a big deal about a very small matter.

I worked in the motor trade for years and I can tell you now that you'll be the laughing stock of the company if you complain.

Catsdontcare · 29/10/2011 21:47

Good grief.

TheDetective · 29/10/2011 21:47

Oh well, should have let dp drive uninsured, and carry on his illegal parking and blocking the entire pavement causing any pedestrian passing to have to cross the very busy main road that we live on! Whadd'ya know!

OP posts:
troisgarcons · 29/10/2011 21:50

Perhps YOU should have been ready on time and shifted your own car

worraliberty · 29/10/2011 21:50

Or just leave a bit earlier for work

NinkyNonker · 29/10/2011 21:50

It was the letting rip, comments about rudeness and ignorance and threats of complaints I'm responding to. Personally I would have let DH move a car for that short distance. Also, when you came to leave couldn't they have both just got in their cars and moved while you drove out? Why the drama?

troisgarcons · 29/10/2011 21:50

BTW - I'll stand to be corrected BUT if he has insurance on HIS car he can drive yours with permission

NinkyNonker · 29/10/2011 21:51

PS: If you didn't want to know whether you were being unreasonable, why post?

"I can't believe I let rip at the guy who came to fit a tracker in DP's car yesterday . Was I being unreasonable however...!"

topknob · 29/10/2011 21:52

My dh fits trackers for such insurance companies, if you spoke to him like that I would hunt you down !

squeakyfreakytoy · 29/10/2011 21:52

You are probably correct Trois. 3rd party only, but enough to manoever a couple of cars around.

FabbyChic · 29/10/2011 21:52

Get a grip lots of people say they park on drives when they don't.

topknob · 29/10/2011 21:54

oh and if you had no drive, he would have fitted it on the side of the road obviously ! If you didn't want the tracker fitted then pay full price insurance !

squeakyfreakytoy · 29/10/2011 21:54

The car was parked with the side he needed to do the work towards the pavement - so no excuse for needing to move the car for safety

he may have been working nearest to the pavement, but it is still a risk to be working on a vehicle which is parked on the road..

NinkyNonker · 29/10/2011 21:55

Absolutely, technically safer anyway on the drive I'd have thought...if it were the other way around then maybe the insurance company could complain.

Icelollycraving · 29/10/2011 21:55

Topknob,I'm waiting for the thread 'to hunt down the stroppy nightmare my dh had an ear bashing off'. :o

TheDetective · 29/10/2011 21:55

Trois Dp is 21, he has just passed his test. He is not insured to drive any other car on his policy. He would of had to back my car out on to a busy main road. He has never done this before.

And I was ready on time, to shift my own car, I wasn't expecting to need extra time to shift 2 other cars on a road which can take me up to 5 minutes to get off my own drive.

OP posts:
Catsdontcare · 29/10/2011 21:56

Maybe you could come down and move your own car next time? You sound like hard work!

NinkyNonker · 29/10/2011 21:57

Sory, but if you have a drive, knew that the man was likely to come at roughly the time you were going to leave for work (you say yourself that this is a common problem) you should have thought if though and put your car on the road and DP's on the drive in advance. Woking on the drive is preferable to working on the road.

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