I have to go for surgery soon and am worried about complications - but am I being stupid to expect the system to work faster? Sorry in advance for length and whininess .
So, 2 years ago it came to light that I had a kidney complaint which would require surgery. Various scans, waiting lists etc, and finally 18mos down the line I had the surgery: a big op requiring hospitalisation and then a smaller op, which was day surgery and no biggie.
Between big op and small op, I started getting blood in my wee - a lot of blood. Given that I'd just had renal surgery and had been told that a significant risk of the op was internal rupture, I was a bit freaked. Rang consultant's secretary and was told he'd get a registrar to ring me back - this never happened. Rang a couple more times, but nothing doing.
Left it and hoped it would get better on its own
Then after the next op, I started getting severe pain within a couple of hours (at home by then). Rang NHS Direct, who referred me to out of hours GP - I'd taken 90mg of codeine by then. OOH GP said that pain after routine ops was normal and due to 'disturbance of the tissue' (
) and I should take paracetamol to cure it (
) and not bother consultant. This was despite the fact that I had an aftercare sheet which mentioned lots of possible symptoms, but not pain like this.
Fastforward a few hours, too painful to lie down or sit, pacing the house all night, throwing up periodically from pain and reaction to codeine. Rang consultant's sec first thing in the morning, and she said I had to see a different GP to get referred back to hospital, which took a couple of hours. In the end, it's late afternoon by the time I see a surgeon. As it happened, the small op had gone pretty badly wrong and I needed further surgery that day - and have to go back in next week for fourth op and maybe more.
Okay, if you've read this very boring essay, well done! Am a bit scared because I am afraid there will be more complications and I feel like the system takes so long to react. I am not dying and I don't want to bother the consultant when he is busy doing ops on people with kidney cancer - but equally, AIBU to think when you have surgery and really bad pain right after, it shouldn't take the best part of 24 hours to see someone who knows what they're doing?
Or do I just have a massive sense of entitlement?