Yes I'll do everything

[witchyhills]

After coming back from NZ from rugby final, DH not very happy that i couldn't get his clothes dry, so couldn't pack for him.
He left 3 loads of washing,wouldn't tell me exactly what needed washing, just had to sort it out for myself.
And now has left me a list of what to pack for him tomorrow. Not a problem as we are not leaving til tomorrow night, but he had now gone up bed in a strop

FFS. Grow up
I have just ironed your trousers dry
I have just sat in a restaurant and listened to you talk about work non stop, and answer emails, and I even answered your phone and talked to your colleague. But fuck me if I need to respond to a friend about tickets for ds's birthday

Fuck off, I dont actually really want to go away with you,

That's a very quick turnaround, OP. From it's my life's work to do everything because he's got a very important job, to no, not really, he usually does it all himself actually... You sound a bit confused?

I think it sounds like you are just feeling frustrated at life, not really your DH.

I would expect to be the one to pack my DH's things if we were going away together and he was really busy while I was doing not very much all day. And I'd want to do it for him to help him, the same as I know he would do it for me if it were the other way round.

That's just part of sharing your life with someone isn't it? You do things to help eachother out when you can.

I'm glad you're feeling better today OP.

"I would expect to be the one to pack my DH's things if we were going away together and he was really busy while I was doing not very much all day."

Me too.

Thing is, looking after children isn't not doing very much all day. I used to find that it had got to6 in the evening and everything I'd planned to slot in, hadn't happened. So I hadn't been doing not very much, I'd been on the go for 12 hours without a real break.

Good luck job hunting,if being housewife frustrates you then yes do go back to work.

We all have days like that where the daily grind gets you down. I retract my leave the bastard and prescribe you a glass of

This is what happens when you hook up with someone who likes Rugby Union.

Rugby Union's not a sport - it's just crowd control for schoolboys.