I work in a nursery and am key-person for a child with global developmental delays, currently receiving portage and further involvement with other agencies.
A member of staff is doing a course and asked if she could have a copy of the report from the portage service to use in an assignment.
Fine, I said, as long as you have permission from child's parent.
She stormed off and later told me I need to grow-up 
So, as parents, would you like it if confidential information was given to a member of the staff to use in their assignment without your permission?
I know I wouldn't if I hadn't given my permission first. But would probably be ok if I was asked.
AIBU?