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To think that treating men like prostitues is a step too far?

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FaceOfFeminism · 25/10/2011 14:00

The dark side of feminism

Using men for sexual gratification even worse travelling to pretty much 3rd world destinations for the sterotypical big, black cock

www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-who-travel-for-sex-sun-sea-and-gigolos-407202.html

Take Jamaica, where 17 per cent of the population lives below the poverty line. Hustling on the beach is the only way that some young men can feed themselves and their families. No wonder they choose older women who pay better than younger ones. InNegril, the men can earn $100 (£60) for sex with a female tourist, £90 for oral sex, which Jamaican men usually regard as taboo

My friend and I decided to treat ourselves to a stay in a luxury hotel in St Lucia for 10 days of pure pampering - and ideally a sexual encounter. This was the first time I'd gone on holiday explicitly with this intention. I was keen to find a St Lucian man as I'd heard they were very well endowed

Or is this what you called equality and enlightenment?

OP posts:
AMumInScotland · 26/10/2011 09:53

Is anyone actually suggesting that this is feminism? Are feminists fighting for their freedom to pay for "big black cock"? Strange, but I haven't met or heard of this new wave of feminism......

Feminists do argue for equality and enlightenment. They have complex discussions about the rights and wrongs of sex work, and the ways in which it is marketed as a "choice" to women (and equally, these West Indian men) when it isn't actually a choice but an economic necessity.

They don't tell women that equality means behaving as badly as some men choose to do, in paying for their pleasures at the cost of others.

Rollon2012 · 26/10/2011 11:30

OP perhaps you link this to the feminism section?

as I doubt any feminist worth their salt would do that tbh, sounds odd.

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