I recently miscarried - I'm probably going through an "anger" stage but it cheesed me off at the time and still bugs me so I don't know if I'm over reacting.
The Dr discussing with me what to do next (after 4 days in hospital bleeding and the most recent scan showing baby's heartbeat had gone) chewed gum the whole time he talked to me.
All I could think was "if you lost someone you loved, would you want the undertaker chomping away whilst you discussed how to dispose of the body?
I really did have excellent medical care - so aibu to resent this?