Why do people feel the need to do this?
" I never had x as a child and I survived"
" I never had amy help when my 20 children were small and I survived"
"I breastfed till mine were 22 and my breasts fell off but I never moaned"
" I walked 50 miles in the pitch dark to school and look at me now"
AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH
We all find different things difficult/stressful and unless you are being particuarly precious competitive misery is really unheplful