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to be taken aback by a total stranger telling me off for not putting shoes on a 4 month old baby?

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peedieworky · 11/10/2011 11:12

Okay! So I had lifted the wee fella out of his buggy and footmuff & he was on the "lying down" style trolley in Asda. He was wearing a winter jacket with hood on top of his day clothes, mittens and thick socks. Having chased his socks & mittens round the shop floor an effing squillion times on more than one occasion, I was waiting at the till when I was approached by a woman in her late 50's/early 60's who exclaimed that it was "a sin that boy's got no shoes on!".

I have to confess, I have no shoes for my 4 month old child - thought it was just another thing to pick up off the floor and best left till he was at least crawling.

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Hellboy · 13/03/2012 14:43

Pumpkin - I know the lady didnt mean the baby needed shoes to walk.

GeekCool · 13/03/2012 14:52

I thought hands and feet weren't a good indicator of body temp anyway or I have got that all backward?

Anyway, if I can get my son to wear a slong sleeve t-shirt and a jacket, I call it a good day - another nakey one here. Him, not me. I don't want to scare people Grin

Hellboy · 13/03/2012 14:58

no Geek you're right, IME anyway. I can be wrapped up in a roll of loft insulation and my hands / feet will still feel like ice, Ive got very bad circulation though

happywheezer · 13/03/2012 15:03

My husband got told off in Spanish, I might add by a lady who told him off about DS1 not having any socks on in April when it was 25 degrees outside.

That to us is a lovely day but to this spanish lady it was cold!

Fluffycloudland77 · 13/03/2012 15:55

Firstly, babies have more brown fat than us and its an excellent insulation.

Secondly, I'm a podiatrist and would not put shoes on a baby. When they start walking, then you put them in shoes.

Oh, and your meant to get them measured every 6 weeks until there 3 or so! pricey or what.

Moominsarescary · 13/03/2012 16:03

My son is one today and still has no shoes

LadyBeagleEyes · 13/03/2012 16:12

I'm 55 and have no absolutely no interest in stranger's babies in the supermarket.
But as this lady was late 50s/ early 60's maybe my invitation to the 'nutty old ladies in the supermarket course' is in the post.

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