.......say "we will go out for a drink sometime"? Or AIB a bit sensitive and mardy?
Will be as brief as I can - I asked her (I'm gay) out for a drink months back, she said yes, she mentioned it a couple of times over the next few weeks ("oh we must sort something out" kind of thing) but nothing was ever arranged. I (trying to be v cool) didn't push it, but did mention it once when I emailed her about something else. She ignored it, so I thought oh well, that's that then.
At a "do" a couple of months later she said (out of the blue, we were talking about something else) that she wasn't gay so she felt she had to ignore the going out for a drink offer - which i thought was a bit odd because by then she'd actually mentioned it more than me. She then said that she was in the process of splitting up with her boyfriend. I was fine and cheerful, a bit relieved really that i know for sure she isn't gay now, and would've quite happily left it at that, then she said "when I've got things sorted out with D, we'll go for a drink."
I realise now I should've said "why?" but i just mumbled "ok then" and wandered off, a bit baffled. Mentioned it to a friend later who said "ooh, she's just thrown you a curved ball." I don't know, not sure what one of those is! (bit thick emoticon). But for heaven's sake, why would you say that and not mean it?
V trivial I know. I really should get out more.