To be angry and think he should step up ? ?

[tmmy]

HD had been away for work for 2 weeks.DS 5 wakes up every night at 4 ish with bad dreams,getting into my bed and disturbing my sleep, only to wake up before 7. DD 8 Months wakes at 3ish then 5 ish. Some times more .I am tired and SAHM.

I think DH should have gracefully done the morning ( DS goes to school by school bus which picks up out side house.) Instead woke me up asking me to hold the bb.Fine. Then made me watch him pathetically trying to convince 4 year old to get dressed 5 mins before bus arrives. I dont mean to sound like a hag but WTF? It was so unpleasant. When I tried to butt in, he got all pissy like ...Im doing this keep out of it. Erm ? FUCK OFF ? I hold fort. He gets home and wont give me a lie in ?

I dont get the fact that op had been awake twice during the night and obviously and understandingly was tired - why not just get up get ds1 off to school,give baby his brekkie - see dh off all whilst still in your pjs then by 10am you could have been napping on the settee for 30-40 mins.

Its not me being a bitch saying that its me saying look at what you have to do,do it then take time for yourself,Im not superwoman but if things have to be done then by doing them you get the time for yourself - 30 mins after ds1 was on the bus you could have been resting- no argument with dh no upset for ds1 and peace for you.

DH.Woops.I must be tired!